Dresses and Skirts

Okay, I'm going into a subject that is a breeding ground for all sorts of comments, but treck down this path I must. There are times when it seems like I've gotten over my dysphoria, but it is brought back when I see what I would consider to be a pretty woman, though it isn't the only time. This seems to be the strongest argument for autogynephilia. Could somebody provide guidance for this matter, say by asking certain questions to try to get to the root of this? I would appreciate it, thanks.